Chill out- enjoy the moment 💟

So many times I get asked if I get jeolous over other Woman around my Husband. Simply, the answer is No. He is very Handsome and personable, he is easy to talk to and makes everyone feel special. This is only some of what made me fall in love with him. I explained to a Woman after she couldn't comprehend why I just didn't get upset over flirtatious hugs or what not, That it is just this simple:

The worse that that could happen is he would leave me, his children, and run off with 'fling girl'; and that would just suck. But, who am I to tell him what he needs or what is good for him? If he feels another woman and life is better than what he has, then peace out. I am not going to waste my energies on negative thoughts that will eventually eat my soul.

Of course I would be hurt, it would destroy the children, and there would be a time of healing. But that is an extreme case- if he 'chooses' to leave us. At the end of the day, a flirtatious hug or a friendly peck on the cheek more than likely isnt going to kill our mariage or what we've built together. 

Now, I can feel this way because my Husband has never done anything for me to distrust him; although other men have, he is not them, and he deserves for me to base my trust in him on his actions, not those of my past.

So for any woman out there who may get all worked up over every little thing, and your Man honestly has not done anything to cause distrust in him, just relax and enjoy your Man💖

If there is distrust in the relationship, then by all means if you question their intentions, then talk about it. But even then don't jump the gun, give time for the trust to rebuild💞